To all of our friends & family who have been checking our blog regularly for updates we so apologize for the delay…We have been busy selling and showing our beautiful Gold Creek home of 7 years, as well as running back and forth to baseball games and track meets. The good news is our house sold in two and a half weeks, and baseball season is almost over! Hooray I get a life again! We are pressing into the qualifying meets now for The Junior Olympics and Chase appears to be a strong contender with his 4.47 mile.

Chaeli is thriving in her new family and home, and loves her brothers beyond anything I can write about here. She lights up every time they walk in the room or pick her up and twirl her around. She is one lucky girl to have 3 brothers as her covering. They admire her and love her and they live to see her smile. Her cousin Davis is pretty enthralled with her too!

Chaeli starts every morning off with her playful bath and it is customary for us to see her all nestled up in a towel just like this. Dan calls her his cuddle duck every time she comes out of the water all wrapped up. I love my mornings with Chaeli (when all the boys have left for school and it is just her and I). We have so much fun together and surely the best part of our day is in the morning when I get to bathe her, massage her with sweet smelling lotions, kiss her little brown bear body from head to toe, and dress her up in all of her adorable clothes! She is my little beauty and I never tire of looking into her face.

Mother’s Day was very special for us this year because we had Chaeli blessed at our church. It was so neat to have all of her brothers, and her Mommy and Daddy come up in front of the church family and talk about Chaeli and our love for her. Dan said a prayer for her in front of the congregation that was so heartfelt. If you want to see the service you can log onto it by going to: New Hope Seattle Podcast

Here are some pictures of Chaeli with her Daddy who simply adores her!

Here are a few pictures of Chaeli and me taken early in the morning in our back yard. I cannot tell you how long I have waited and longed for a little girl of my own to take a picture just like this one. She has made the wait so worth it for me. Who else could there have ever been for me except little Chaeli?

I think these are some of my favorite pictures of Chaeli because it shows her laughing and it really shows off her funny, goofy little pigtails (we call them “pigs”). Chaeli’s personality is really coming through. She smiles all the time, belly laughs and gives kisses whenever we pucker up to her. She melts our hearts into liquid.

We thank all of you for the love that you have shown to our little Chaeli Bug! She is one happy little girl and she has a family that was hand picked for her by God, to love her all the days of her life. That is what we are passionately doing one day at a time.

Grandma Maureen knitted her a sweet little white sweater that she will be able to wear next year about this time and Jan bought her a couple dresses for next year as well. We tried to dress her up in everything that did fit her right now so you could enjoy the fashion show!

Chaeli’s birthday party brought with it a gorgeous surprise snow storm. There’s nothing like big, white flakes falling all over to give you a nestled in, cozy feeling. We enjoyed a small, intimate party with just the right number of people and plenty of pizza and ice-cream cake. It was so much fun! I wish all of you could have been here to celebrate with us.

It seems every day with Chaeli we see more and more of her personality and who she really is. Have we mentioned that she melts our hearts??? On another separate note, Chaeli now has an insatiable appetite for food! Yep, she pretty much wants to eat food all day long, and oh yeah…watch out for your fingers! They may get in the way of her now 7 teeth!

Everyone kept coming over to see her, talk to her and ask us about our beautiful baby.

It seems no one can believe she is already turning 1 – she is still so little. We let Chaeli down a bit in the store and she walked around the clothes rack, showing off her very tiny (but pretty) black shoes. It seems funny to see one so small walking around upright. Chaeli is getting very mobile now and is so much fun to watch and play with. She was the perfect baby to tote around today, even though she was not feeling very well. We all needed a break from the house and the sick bug blues, so we had a couple hours at the mall and enjoyed lunch together with Daddy at our favorite restaurant. It was a perfect Valentine’s Day!

Chaeli is the perfect baby and our family is rejoicing over her daily, at how perfectly God answers prayers. She is crawling from room to room and is pulling herself up and walking along her crib and our furniture.

She loves her new excersaucer (from Pat & Cindy Frye) and is so happy when she takes her baths (see th epictures I have posted).

The girl is a little fish! Her newest talent is that she puts her head down on the floor, hands and feet planted firmly (like she is going to do a somer sualt), and then she lifts her butt up in the air (holds the position) and does the wiggle dance! It is the cutest thing you have ever seen! I swear she will be doing somersaults by the end of the week!

Here are some of the latest pictures of our little Sugar Plum. We will celebrate her first birthday on February 28th! Love to you all ~

Sheila & Dan.

P.S. OK so we are jumping the gun a little by putting Chaeli in her swim suits…but we can dream can’t we! Can’t wait for the long, lazy days of summer with Yen Yen on my hip! Thank you Auntie Christ and Uncle Dean for buying Yen Yen her first pink bathing suite.

Now you can all see her and love her today! Please pray her little nose stops running and she recovers quickly from her first sick bug. Oh and before I forget… Yen Yen started eating solids! She LOVES sweet potatoes, plums and oatmeal – who would have known she would grow up so fast?!

The other day my good long time friend Tammy came over with her two very beautiful daughters (both of whom she adopted from China!) They loved Chaeli up and smothered her with kisses and giggles. Emma is the oldest and came from the Shaanzi provence and Abbey came from Guangdong Provence just like our Chaeli. Tammy asked us to bring her back some traditional Chinese clothing for her girls, and they were so excited to put them on! Emma, who loves to dance, twirled around in cirlces in her new dress, while Abbey playfully bounced on the couch. What an amazing site to see two children born of a common ancestory, in opposite parts of their country, finally together as the sisters God intended them to be. After seeing these beautiful girls playing together, Dan thinks we should go to China again and get Chaeli a little sister (I say I would take them all if I could!)

Dan’s parents Paul & Maureen came down a few days ago to meet little Chaeli. It was Grandpa Paul’s first time seeing his new grandaughter. We think he was smitten by her, of course Grandma was for sure! Chaeli seems to have that affect on everyone though… We still fight around here to hold her and rock her to sleep. Can’t wait for you all to meet her!

The snow has kept us bundled up mostly inside these first few days but we did venture out to downtown Snohomish 2 days ago and will be returning there this afternoon. Chase runs track at the high school there, so while he gets his workouts Chaeli and I window shop in all of the antique stores and baby boutiques. She is so much fun to have around! She just started to clap her hands and really move around on the floor. She was crawling before, but now she is easily crawling from one room to another and is even standing up on her legs while holding on to something (wow! I forgot how exciting a baby’s first steps can be!) I wish everyone could have a baby at 40 so they could experience the fun and the joy that I am having. It is simply the best gift one could receive!

I took a few pictures of the boys outside today sledding with the neighbors (they were pretty excited about a no school day in the middle of the week!) I also managed to snap a photo of the tree outfront that looked magical with all of the snow laying on its branches. Winter can really be beautiful.

I kept Chaeli inside all day due to the cold and what did we do??? We played dress up together! This girl is just like a baby doll, so much fun to hold and squeeze. Why is it that Yen Yen looks so good in everything I put on her?! She just takes my breath away ~ especially when I am with her like this.

Chase and I ventured out today around 4pm in the snow and I stopped off and bought Chaeli her first little snow suit. It fit perfectly (6-9 mos). I don’t ever want her to grow up. We took her out to our back yard for a brief minute or two to let her experience the snow. She didn’t say much but her eyes were taking it all in. Brrr! I couldn’t take but a few minutes of it myself!

It is going to be so much fun watching Chaeli experience her life here in the NorthWest. She never had snow in her 10 months in Guangdong.

I hope you are all enjoying this baby as much as we are! She is so precious, in every way.

Chaeli also got a new bath chair so that she can take bath swith her brothers without the worry of slipping too far into the tub. I snuck in and grabbed a couple of pictures of her with brother Cael who was teaching her how to play in the bath.

Cael also fed Chaeli her very first bottle today. This was a really big deal to Cael and he was careful to hold her “just right.” From the picture you can see how relaxed Chaeli was.

Cael came into the room last night to kiss Chaeli goodnight and I heard him tell her, “I would die for you Chaeli.” Those were strong words coming from a 7 year old boy. I asked him why he said that and he replied, “Because I would Mom.” Cael is learning to love and to attach with his sister in a way that is all his own.

Last night my dear, sweet friend Ali came over and brought Chaeli and I matching sandals from Hawaii’s best, most spectacular store “Cinnamon Girl.” It is a store that specializes in matching Mother & Daughter everything! Ali was so kind to think of Chaeli and me and to bring us these gorgeous shoes! How beautiful are they?! Thank you Ali for a one of a kind gift.

Well Chaeli is fast asleep, Dan is sacked out, and all the boys are tucked snug as a bug under their covers. I am enjoying my last few minutes of quiet time before heading down the hall to my slumber oasis. I can’t tell you how glorious and (much appreciated) my sleep is these days. It is something only mothers of infant children can comprehend.

Love to you all and I hope everyone is staying warm in the winter storm.

Love Sheila.

Hello to everyone!

Yes, we are finally home (aah, feesl so good!) and safely nestled into the life we love. Our trip home went really well. I can’t believe it but it was actually easier coming home with Chaeli in my arms then it was going to China without her. She did really well on both flights, and so did I (usually I am a terrible traveler).

The only bummer was that neither of us slept for most of the 18 hours. Toward the end (of our second journey) Chaeli & Dan did finally get some shut eye but I was awake the whole time, listening to my ipod and crying over the glorious news that my baby was coming home! There’s a picture of Chaeli together with me on the plane and you can see her finally sacked out.

There are also a couple pictures of Chaeli when we landed in Tokyo and had some time to kill between flights at the NW Airlines executive lounge.

The moment we touched ground in Seattle Chaeli became a US citizen, so of course her Daddy wanted to catch that special moment in time!

Chaeli’s homecoming was so sweet. My sister and best friend Michelle met us at the airport to greet us (or should I say to greet Chaeli?) It was so cute because they were at the top of the escalator, practically hanging over the edge, to catch the first glimpses of Yen Yen!

It was really special having them there to meet us. And then at home both of the Grandmas and all 3 boys were jumping with excitement to see the little girl they had waited so long for! It was positively the best homecoming we could have ever had!

Chaeli is getting used to her new house, routine and especially her 3 big brothers. She LOVES her brothers! They have already taken over and feed her bottles, put her to sleep and have even taught her to stand up in her crib (I am not sure if that is oemthing I should be glad about???)

Anyhow, this little Yen Yen is filling us all with so much happiness and joy. She adds so much to our house. Everyone is always dying to pick her up or love her. What I like is that she is adjusting to her new time zone change very successfully. She wakes up around midnight, but has learned to comfort herself back to sleep rather quickly. She now sleeps the whole night in her crib and we are all getting the much needed rest that we need.

I will post again as life evolves with Chaeli. We are already looking forward to February when we get to celebrate her first year of life! Thank you all for your continued prayers for our little girl. She is happy and healthy and is learning family very well.

Hugs,
Sheila.

Today we had our consulate visit. This is pretty much a formality for people adopting and returning to the US. For the event Sheila and I dressed ourselves up in traditional Chinese formal attire with Chaeli to commemorate the event. Sheila was a little self conscious with the high slit up the side of her dress but none of the men seem to mind, including myself. Our guide was saying that she was hearing the local Chinese women say what a beautiful woman Sheila was as we past them by. I would have to agree with that as well.

When we crammed ourselves into a van to go to the consulate, I was expecting something totally different than an office on the 4th floor of a downtown high-rise. Somehow images of a walled compound with Marines stationed at every entrance was my thought. Not a Marine to be seen as even the security guards were locals. Perhaps the cold war is over now?

They escorted us in and sat us down in what looked like a dept of motorized vehicles waiting room and a nice woman came out and made us recite a simple oath. She explained to us that our children could be considered dual citizens (somewhat) but recommended they always travel with a US passport in the event of any trouble, so the US gov could intervene and help out. She also informed us that once we touch down on US soil, our daughter will immediately become an US citizen. I guess as American’s we don’t really consider the privileges of citizenship since we take it for granted everyday but somehow with her saying this it hit our emotional button as Sheila and I began to swell tears around our eyes. God Bless America!

Sheila and I have enjoyed our stay here very much as we have experienced the very best that China has to offer. The accommodations have been superb, the food excellent and the service has been the best I have ever experienced. And can they do laundry here or what? I don’t think Guangzhou is the real example of what China is, as one of my friends emailed me and said that I would need to travel with him so I could discover the true China. However, for me it has been enough to take in a culture that is evolving faster than our own and see the beauty of its people.

I thought I would share with you one of the consequences of China’s rapid development … pollution. What you are seeing in this picture is not fog but smog. It lingers everywhere. Growing up in LA wasn’t nearly as bad.

One of the things I will miss the most about China is the inexpensive services. Sheila and I had massages done for a total of 70 minutes each and only ended up spending around $20.00 US. And this might be higher than the average. They kneed you like a loaf of bread and hit every spot, but once they are done you feel so good. First they soak your feet in hot water with some type of Chinese herb, give you green tea to drink and then bring in hot towels and wrap your legs in them. And then some hot 19 year old beauty comes in and rubs your body down with scented oil…snicker snicker…actually Sheila didn’t leave the room once through the whole process.

We have managed to stuff our luggage full of Chinese trinkets, silks and nick-knacks and maybe spent pennies compared in the US but what we take home with us is even greater than the Good Buys we haggled with the local merchants for. My black eye pearls will always be a reminder to me of all the asian pearls still left behind.

Love Dan.